Wednesday, August 29, 2007

I've got news

Hey- Joshua here. Mommy usually doesn't let me type on the keyboard, but since I've got news she's letting me post. I'm usually the last one to know everything, but I figured when I got this new shirt that something was up. Every time I wear it people get really excited...

Do you like it? Did you read it? It says, "I'm going to be a big brother!" Then it has a monkey swinging. Does that mean the new baby will look like a monkey?

Mommy and Daddy say the baby is suppose to come on March 5th. That means it's been in Mommy's tummy for about 13 weeks. I have been getting lots of practice so I can be a great big brother.

Thursday, August 23, 2007

I scream, you scream, Joshua screams for...

ICE CREAM!
While back in ol' Virginee, Joshua got his first ice cream cone. It was messy, and
lots of fun.















(We tried to teach him how to lick the ice cream cone)

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Vacation

We recently returned from two weeks on the East Coast. Rather than completing a 1000 word essay on what we did....here are some highs (and, er, lows) of our trip:

-We started Joshua on a new antibiotic the day before the trip. One of the side effects is diarrhea. I've learned not to start new medications with a side effect of diarrhea before three hour plane trips. Fortunately, Joshua didn't indicate anything was wrong during the two and a half hours he sat in mess on the plane (half hour into the flight was when we noticed the plane smelled bad). I'll spare you the very messy, all over him, all over his seat details...

-Always a good time hanging out with the Zeb clan. Joshua got in on the traditional cousins chicken fighting this year.





-Fun times with Mom Mom!




-Joshua got his first DunkinDonuts-YUm YUm!


-Joshua got to see daddy's college campus-University of Delaware.
-On the way from Delaware, we got in some very short visits with two of my college roommates & their families. We spent the night with Uncle Jeff in Richmond, where we spent the night playing video games!

-Day two of traveling from DE to VA, we detoured to West Virginia to see my grandmother and then on to the family farm so Joshua could see the cows (and my extended family!).

-I was so excited to see Kurt get in on some Japanese beetle action with my Dad. It brought back such fond memories. First they get collected in a bag and then my dad insists on digging a hole and then burying them with a bag of boiling water. Good times. Don't you just love that Kurt always has a good stance when lifting things?


-Joshua apparently wore Mimi and Papa out!-My stepsister and family were in town for our last day. Joshua was surrounded by his California cousins the entire time! He loved all the attention.
~I had my ten year high school reunion, so we had to take a pre-prom style photo when Kurt "picked me up" for our big night out-Hey, where's my corsage? It was so fun to catch up with hometown friends!


~Joshua discovered the joy of running up and down a hill in Virginia.



I know you are hungry for more...you can see all 170+ photos from our trip on our Picasa site.

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Dinner Entertainment

The latest in dinner entertainment from Lil' JZ...

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Photo Sharing

I'm playing around with some new options for photos. Thought I'd experiment with embedding a slide show on here.

July 4th we went to a parade in the morning. Thankfully the rain held off. Joshua didn't really seem to get the parade, but he enjoyed the firetrucks and candy. That evening we had some of his friends from playgroup over-they brought their parents too.





Photo Sharing - Video Sharing - Share Photos - Free Video Hosting


The slideshow is through Picasa and the video through Dropshots. We are experimenting with which venue to use for photo sharing. The problem is both have advantages and disadvantages. Both are nice because you have one address and people can check out the site anytime for new photos. (As opposed to a Snapfish in which you have to invite people to see your album each time you create a new one.)

What I like about Dropshots:
* Embed videos to blog without using Youtube.
* Arranges photos automatically by date and can be viewed in calendar format.
* Links with other family & friends sites to tell me when they are updated with new photos.

What I like about Picasa:
*Easy to view photos in slide show format.
*Seems to be faster to use.
*Fun to be able to embed slide shows on the blog.

You can check out the Picasa site here.

You can check out the Dropshots site here.

Hopefully we'll decide which one to go with soon and put a permanent link to it. Feel free to leave a comment with which one you like better. I asked all our family and those that responded to the question were 50-50 in their preference.

Monday, July 23, 2007

Feeling like a Mom

One day when I was feeling very pregnant and big, I went to the mall to do a little shopping. I saw a hip-looking mom with cute clothes, all put together and strolling her newborn around. I reminded myself that someday soon, I would be back to regular size, with a precious baby to stroll around the mall. Just knowing I would soon be that hip mom, put an extra skip in my swollen and tired feet. Looking back, I laugh at my wishful thinking. I wasn't a hip child, a hip teen, or a hip young adult. What exactly made me think I would suddenly be a hip mom?

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Why this would never happen to a women

I just read this on CNN.com :

Man arrives at wedding year early

LONDON, England (Reuters) -- Teacher Dave Barclay flew thousands of miles across the Atlantic to Wales to attend his friend's wedding, only to discover he was a year early.

Barclay, 34, was told about the wedding earlier in the year and assumed it was to take place in 2007.

It was only when he had flown into Cardiff from Toronto, Canada, and rang the bridegroom seeking details of the venue that he discovered the wedding was in 2008.

"I am a year early -- yeah, my mates are loving it, aren't they," he told BBC Radio Wales.

The groom, Dave Best, had emailed his friend at the start of the year.

"He just said July the 6th and I assumed it was this year because if you tell the guy July 6th, they're going to think it's this year," Barclay said.

Barclay, who has been teaching in Toronto for three years spent £500 ($1,015) on his premature flight.

"At least it's assured me a mention in the speech next year," he added.

Why this would never happen to a woman:

1) Hello, invitation? We would have clarified when we hadn't received an invitation.

2) We would have called our other friends to find out what they were going to wear.

3) We would never dream of flying into a city to then find out where we were supposed to be.

4) We would have used our resources to find a ticket that was cheaper that $1015.

5) We would have triple-checked the date with our friend since it was on a Friday. (Then we would have talked about how inconvenient it was with our other friends.)

Oh well, at least he wasn't the groom....





Sunday, July 01, 2007

Chipwiches in the Cemetery

It all began in the eighth grade during the annual Presidential Physical Fitness test. I ran the mile in under ten minutes and was so impressed with myself, I felt led to join the track team. Sprinting was clearly not my thing, so "long distance" track it was. The realization that the half mile and mile events were torture came quickly. There was, however, one factor in my favor, consistency; I was second to last in every race.

Since track went so poorly for me, it was clear there was only one thing left to do, sign up for cross county. My parents even shelled out money to send me to running camp that summer. Possibly the worst investment they ever made. Seriously, me at running camp? Then again, it might have been worth every penny to have my brother and I out of the house at the same time.

Speaking of Jeff, maybe I should blame the entire ordeal of running on him. We could frame it as the classic little sister following in the footsteps of her big brother, wanting to be like him. Or maybe it was the desire to be on a team; Since I had gotten cut from Basketball and Cheerleading, my options were slim. Or maybe we could blame the running desire on the cool sweats the cross country team got to wear. Regardless of the reason, there I was running through the town of Abingdon, inhaling fumes from the traffic as we ran next to everyday on Main Street. Truth be known, sometimes I didn't always run down main street. I didn't even always run.

My friend LuLu* was a natural runner with a clear gift. She broke the school record for fastest mile in 8th grade. The coach had high aspirations for her high school running career, but there was just one problem; she didn't really like to run. She would rather go for a smoke than a jog. So instead of participating in practice, we would "run" to the local gas station, buy chipwiches, and then hang out in the cemetery next to the high school. I'm sure we didn't fool good ol' Coach Cumbow, but I'm pretty sure my Dad is learning about these adventures as he reads this...

Come race day, I paid for my lack of practice and indulgence of chipwiches. It was ugly. Of course LuLu would sail across the finish line in one of the top three positions. That year was our first and last on the cross country team. I had to turn in my sweats, but I decided they weren't really worth the effort anyway.

Last month, I redeemed my poor running career, if ever it can be redeemed. After being inspired by several tri-athlete friends, I trained and competed in the Danskin Triathlon for women. It is a sprint triathlon in which women swim 1/2 mile, bike 12 miles, and run 3.1 miles. My goal was to finish in under 2 hours, and I'm proud to say my time was 1 hour and 44 minutes. And the crazy part? The run was my best event! I finished in the top 10 percent overall in the run (215 out of 2612) with a time of 27:37. Now that's a time of 27:37 after swimming and biking, and I'm pretty sure that's around what I ran in high school when the only event was to run. Which makes me realize how bad I really was.

It's been over a month now since my day in the sun. The glory has been wearing off little by little. I've gained three pounds since the end of my 5-day-a-week training regime. But even if it never happens again, I can look back and remind myself 20 years from now that I was once a tri-athlete. If only they had given out cool sweats that I could wear to the next mommy & me playdate. I did get a medal, but it seems a little over the top to wear in public. So I wear it at home when I'm cleaning and cooking to remind myself I am no ordinary housekeeper.

*Name was changed to protect the guilty, just in case Coach Cumbow didn't know after all...

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Spring Zings

The thing about blogging is that you do it when you want to, about what you want to, without much rhyme or reason. But then I start to feel bad that I didn't tell you about Joshua's first Easter egg hunt, our trip out in the hill country on Kurt's birthday, or how many words JZ is saying now. so here's my quick update on the things I haven't told you about....






For those of you that aren't Texans: In the spring, everyone takes their kids into patches of bluebonnets for pictures. I mean, everyone-even if their kids are in high school...This year was much easier than last, as Joshua could sit up on his own-but of course he could also run away!




















Fellow Hokie pals Rebecca and Emily came into town from New Jersey & Virginia for a weekend. It was lots of fun to reconnect. Joshua pretty much had them both wrapped around his little finger and cuddle with them A LOT! Emily is expecting a little sqWirt this summer so it was fun to drag her around in the heat to all the local spots.




























Joshua had his first easter egg hunt at church on Easter morning. I tried to practice with him before hand, but he just cried when I hid the eggs. Must have thought I was being mean by trying to take them away from him! The church had TONS of eggs, but because of yucky weather (winter weather: sleet & snow!), they hid them on the sidewalk next to the building. Joshua got a little head start since we were in the wrong place for the start. We pointed out the eggs, he walked toward them and picked up one. He showed the one egg to us with joy and a big smile on his face. In the meantime, a hoard of children came and surrounded him grabbing all the eggs. It was pretty darn cute because Joshua didn't seem to notice and was completely content with his one egg. Fortunately, they had so many eggs, Joshua got to have his own hunt once all the other kids were done (see video below)

















The Easter Bunny brought him a big truck to play with outside, so he was one happy kid. He loves his truck!



















Kurt turned the big 3-0 in April. He took half a day off and we went to the Hill Country for a hike at Inks Lake & pie at the Bluebonnet Cafe. (YUM) Joshua was ready to go after the car ride, but only walked about five feet before stopping to rest and get a drink. Wonder who he gets that from...











On the way between the two we found this awesome spot of bluebonnets with Longhorns grazing. It was a true texas moment. What was really cool was that the area is being developed for a large lot subdivision. So we could enter in through the gate and hang with the horns.
































Pie Happy Hour makes everyone happy!
































The weekend after we had friends over for a Redneck Olympics to celebrate Kurt's birthday. The hubcap toss was a big hit, but unfortunately I don't have a single picture from the party (someone hook me up!) Our friends dun be some good ol'rednecks!

Monday, April 30, 2007

the perfect quote for life right now

"What if success is getting the wash into the dryer before the mildew sets in?"

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

We are Virginia Tech



I always love for Virginia Tech to be in the limelight, but not in this manner. My beloved school is now associated with massacre, a shooting of giant porportions, a place of grief and sorrow.


But it has also been associated with strength, hope, courage, and commmitment to others in its community. I have never been so proud to be a Hokie.


My email has been flooded with notes from other Hokies and non-Hokies expressing their condolences on the Virginia Tech tragedy, as well as links to videos, songs, and pictures. I thought I would share a few that really impacted me.







I loved this article, It is a very touching perspective. I was there when we had our first game day experience-It was amazing.



By Chris Fowler
ESPN.com
Archive


They are clashing colors, maroon and orange. As they say, it's a combination only a Hokie could love.



But Tuesday, maroon and orange came together in a moving display of sympathy, support and pride. Watching Virginia Tech students in school colors grieve together at the convocation in Cassell Coliseum got me choked up. I couldn't speak. When they concluded the afternoon by together yelling "We Are Virginia Tech!" and "Let's Go Hokies!" I lost it. Surprising feelings rushed forth. Here were students in a basketball arena doing a sports chant. It was such a familiar expression of unity, but this time summoned for an infinitely more profound occasion. The Virginia Tech community has come together to mourn the lives that were lost.


It's a campus I know well, from many visits through the years. You don't arrive at Virginia Tech accidentally. You have to work to get there, journeying into the Blue Ridge Mountains. It's lovely … picturesque … and seems very far away from the dangers of the outside world.


There is a collective strength of spirit there that feels quite different from other campuses we visit. It's a big school, of about 26,000. But it feels like a tight community.


The official name is Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University. It's not a curriculum or a setting for everyone. But most students who are there want to be nowhere else. That spirit seems to endure long after leaving Blacksburg. Once a Hokie, always a Hokie.


All of this made watching the images and hearing the horrific accounts Monday even more chilling. All the networks showed maps marking the buildings the shootings took place. I n between them is the spot "College GameDay" was staged in September, on the mall near the library and the parade ground.


Those of us who work on "GameDay" (and on the entire ESPN college football project) have a strong affection for Virginia Tech that goes back many years. The pain there is unimaginable and will not soon fade. We hope that the sense of unity and togetherness that makes it a special campus will remain.

During the Hokies' run to the championship game in the '99 football season, it was the amazing spirit of Virginia Tech that helped us take "GameDay's" road shows to a level we'd never imagined. At the urging of Frank Beamer, an orange and maroon horde of about 13,000 wedged in to a corner of Lane Stadium one Saturday morning.



For us, it was a mind-boggling display. Sure, we knew they hadn't necessarily shown up to hear three guys on a set many yards away talk football. They came to show the natio n how strongly they felt about their team and their school. And I can't tell you how much it meant to us to share the day with them.



When "GameDay" revisited Blacksburg later that season, we figured that the novelty had worn off and expected a much smaller crowd. Instead, an even bigger, more spirited throng roared for 90 minutes. After that, our little traveling circus was never the same. The ante had been upped for every other school. Virginia Tech set the standard. We really have savored each visit since. “ The pain there is unimaginable and will not soon fade. We hope that the sense of unity and togetherness that makes it a special campus will remain. ”


This week, that powerful sense of community at Tech is being shown to the world. It is heartening.



Unfortunately, much of the world always will associate this campus in the mountains only with this massacre. Many will conclude from this senseless, ps ychotic act that the current college generation in America is warped by violence … and hopeless.



To me, news events of recent weeks have revealed something quite different. It strikes me: The many Tech students I have seen interviewed were so thoughtful and reasonable, even in moments fresh with confused fear. A strong sense of humanity shines through.


In a way, I saw the same sense of dignity and wisdom-beyond-years displayed by the Rutgers women's basketball team and the three former lacrosse players from Duke. Under intense scrutiny, it was the college kids who were level-headed, displaying tolerant, thoughtful restraint and a sense of perspective, while so many adults embarrassed themselves, grandstanding for the voracious 24-hour media machine, foaming at the mouth on cue. Not the students.


It made me feel pretty good about the generation that will inherit this place.



To the community of Virginia Tech and to the families of the victims, our thoughts will remain with you during the long, difficult healing process. Your sense of unity has never been more needed. It was touching that under the weight of so many other emotions, Tech students seemed saddened that the school they love forever could be branded as the site of an historic massacre.



To those of us who have spent time there, Tech always will be recognized for much more than the hours of tragedy April 16, 2007. We look forward to our next chance to experience Virginia Tech pride first hand.



Chris Fowler is the host of ESPN's "College GameDay."

This prayer was shared at the Austin Chapter of VT Alumni vigil last week. I was amazed at the words as though it was written specifially for the occasion. It reminded me of how our need for God is unchanging and how God himself, is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow.



From the book"A Community at Prayer", a collection of prayers from the Blacksburg community. This one was the invocation at a memorial service for the class of 1918, given on Homecoming Day 1968 at VT's Memorial Chapel:



O Thou in Whom we have always lived,
And in Whom we hope to live forever;
Who has given us purpose in life As well as life itself;
And who has provided meaning in moments of joy
as well as in moments of sadness:


We first wish to express our gratitude for life itself,
But also for clarity of purpose
And for the experience of love in human relationships.

We are grateful, too, for Virginia Polytechnic Institute;
For its loyal sons and daughters;
For its role in providing leaders for this state and nation;
And for its contribution to the world in times of war and peace.


We are particularly grateful this afternoon
For those who have come and gone,
For those who have entereed their deserved reward to closer fellowship with Thee.
We pray, at this time, that their influence will continue,


That their lives, now immortal,
will continue to make a positive contribution to this institution,
To its significant purpose, And to its own future life.


These prayers we ask in the name of Him who came
that we all might have life and have it more abundantly.
Amen.



From a current VT mom, from here in Austin:
I've only posted a couple of times here, and I believe I mentioned that I am the parent of a sophomore currently at VT. I can't begin to tell you all what a wreck I've been this week. The tidal waves of emotions range from relief that my daughter is OK, to guilt for being upset at all because we are so lucky, to outright gut wrenching despair when I allow myself to go to that awful "what if" place [she lived in West AJ 4th floor last year], and finally I am working up to anger for the shooter. Of course all of that is combined with the overwhelming sadness I feel for the families of the 'fallen' victims. I say 'fallen' because I believe everyone involved with VT was victimized on Monday, but for those families that lost their loved ones--I can't even go there or I'll never finish this.
My daughter, an RA, knew two of the victims who were also RAs. The two meetings that have been held this week to provide the RAs information and support so they could better serve their residents were especially difficult for them all. The weeks ahead and upcoming school year will prove to be a challenge for these kids as they will be asked to venture into places and take on responsibilities most adults don't have to tackle. With that said, I want to say how proud I am of her and the other RAs. I also want to acknowledge the work done by the student EMT's. A resident of my daughter's floor is an EMT and she was called to the first scene. She gave mouth to mouth to the one of the `fallen' victims that morning. My heart goes out to that little girl and her family.

I would like to say that when we've had time to digest some of this and can think without emotion taking over, I believe it will be important that we work together to help the Administration make changes that while I don't believe could ever prevent something like this, could make a difference in the safety of the VT campus. I know that I would like to see video surveillance added to dorm hallways and entrances. I also want to say that if God forbid something like this ever happened again I'd like to see the Administration not allow the media to set up shop on the campus. Many of the kids I've heard from feel victimized all over again every time they find themselves being chased for a comment or have a camera thrown into their faces. I believe a ban of media on campus grounds should go into effect before Monday's return to class, this year's graduation ceremony and the beginning of fall term as well. Finally I want to tell you all that as of today my daughter wouldn't consider attending any other school and we completely support her decision. We also--with facts known to us today--have nothing but support for the school and the handling of this matter. There is no way anyone could have predicted this would have happened and nothing would have stopped him from carrying out his plan. Lockdown? They tried that in August and after an hour of it many kids were outside playing Frisbee on the drill field while the police looked on. Email notification? The kids that did know early on believed that it was just a girlfriend/boyfrien d fight gone bad and the email would have only confirmed that. Kicking the shooter out? Maybe, but nothing would have stopped him from returning. Committing him? He would have gotten out eventually and I believe he would have been just as determined to carry out his plan.
Sorry for the length of this post. As you can see this has stirred up a lot of thoughts and emotions. We will be there Monday night.Thanks for listening & I wish you all well.
Sincerely,
Stacey Harrell
neVer forgeT 4.16.07




Here is a very cool video of the candlelight vigil held on the Drillfield
http://www.hamptonroads.tv/index.cfm?locvid=123520&ch=New!

The outpouring from other schools has been amazing. UT darkened the tower for several nights and held a vigil this past Monday. We have gotten numerous condolences from other Austin Chapter Alumni from various schools. And even UVA painted a prominant bridge with "Hoos for the Hokies" Apparently there was also a picture of a Hoo/Cavelier hugging a Hokie, but I could find it. (For you Texas, it's an A&M/UT relationship.


































I am thankful for the Austin area Hokies for putting together a vigil last week. It was great to be there, to be among others who love the school as I do. It was a great time of laughter and fun memories, as well as a time of prayer for the families of those who have been killed. Even though they are on one hand strangers, on the other they are family.



Please continue to pray. My heart is especially heavy for Campus Crusade, a ministry on campus, who lost four students. Please pray with me for their leaders as they encourage students to turn to the Lord to find peace and comfort. Thanks for taking the time to read all this.

Love, Susan


If you'd like to hear a cool VT tribute song written by a student as you read, click here.

And to leave on a Happy note, here are some future Hokies dressed up for HOKIE HOPE day last Friday. These are my former roomates kiddos (& Joshua).






Monday, April 16, 2007

Please Pray for the Hokies

My heart is hurting with the news of the tragedy at Virginia Tech this morning. Sadly, we hear of shootings and tragedy often happening both here in the US and even more abroad. But how it's processed is so different when it's in your world. It's so much closer to home and to your heart knowing it's happened somewhere where you have lived, studied, and walked so many times. And of course your mind starts running though all the people you know that are currently around campus and hope they are not one of the 20+ people that have died today.

If you've never had the privilege of visiting campus, it's a beautiful place, with beautiful buildings, and of course beautiful orange and maroon attire everywhere. Nestled in a small, caring community, and surrounded by the outdoors it is a place that will forever hold awesome memories. Sadly, for many it will now have memories of pain and fear. Please pray with me for the Virginia Tech family; for those that are wounded; and for the families of those that have lost loved ones.

Friday, April 13, 2007

Peep Peep

I love finding evidence in the world that I"m not the only one that gets themselves into silly things that take a lot of time. If only I'd known about this contest. (Thanks for the link Heather)

Friday, March 30, 2007

Getting the blowoff


I knew that someday Joshua would blow me off and pretend not to know me; I just thought it would happen in Middle School, not as a toddler! I am participating in MOPS at a different church than we attend, so the nursery is somewhat new to us. Last week was the third time Joshua was in their nursery. Arriving to pick him up, another child came running and smiling towards me. I explained to the worker that he wasn't actually mine and pointed out the darling little boy in the yellow shirt as my child. The nursery worker called to him, as did I, and then she walked him out of the toy house he was in. The little rascal looked right at me and without so much as a smile turned right back around to keep playing! The nursery worker then asked me if I was sure that was the right one!

Although this age is trying at times, he is still lots of fun. Meal times have been very difficult as he is very demanding with what he will eat and when he'll eat it. He will decide midway through his 10th bite of something he doesn't like it anymore. One day he'll eat Kiwi, the next day- not a chance. We are trying to figure out boundaries and how to encourage his independace while maintaining discipline (and our sanity) too.

Most of the time is mischief is pretty funny. He's fasinated with the toliet and given the opportunity, loves to test what happens when things are put into it. Hopefully his curiosity about the world and his impact in it will continue, until then...

Here he is eating dirt at the neighbor's birthday party. They did have birthday cake, but Joshua apparently didn't want to wait for it. Those are my legs behind him oblivious that he's eating dirt (and I'd like to point out the fact my friend was taking a picture instead of stopping him-hmm, sounds like something I would do.)
Time to move the slide outside???

Here he is with one of his neighborhood girlfriends. He likes to pick the older girls that can drive.

If he can find a way to climb on something, he will. Check out the video for more on this picture.



So at the end of the day, there is sometimes frustration, sometimes even tears, but always lots of giggles, hugs, and kisses.